Usually when someone is a puppeteer it’s because their inability to do anything themselves, so they find a very creative person that has a covert low self esteem or someone they can reduce to a low state with their sexual essence. After the victim is in a needy state the puppeteer gains control over the subject and lives vicariously through them, ergo having them to think that they themselves are the talented one. And they will believe that they actually are talented. The puppeteer usually gather things to black-mail the subject in order to keep control. If it’s a woman, she’s more likely to be a covert lesbian and fighting with her sexual identity, making it easier to do this without any empathy for the guy, whom she is not sexually attracted to anyway. She desires women, so her guy will pay for her sins. She feels pleasure in watching him suffer before her eyes as she has felt all of her life with fighting her sexuality, which she’s afraid to accept.