Being unfaithful is a terrible thing and one of the main causes of a relationship ending. It’s something that causes enormous pain and even emotional scarring to those who unfortunately have to deal with it. It’s not easy, but it’s absolutely necessary to be honest with your significant other about infidelity. Here are 4 tips on how to come clean:
#1. Keep it private: Although there’s never really a perfect 
time to confess to your partner that you’ve cheated on them, there are still ways to go about it in a more discreet and calm manner. Telling them when you both are in the confines of your home is much better than doing so in a public area. This way you both can completely get everything off your chest without the annoying worry of others looking on and judging you.
#2. Know what to say: It’s best to know exactly what you’re 
going to say when the time comes to let your partner know what’s been going on. You want to get the message across as quickly and as painlessly as possible. You want to inform them without giving too much information that could potentially cause them more pain than they can handle. So giving yourself time to prepare before talking to your partner can and will make a difference.
#3. Be honest: Being honest is key especially if your significant 
other has already put it out there that they’ve been suspicious of what you could possibly be doing behind their backs. Just getting it out and letting them know can not only clear your conscience, but also give them a fair chance to decide whether or not they want to move forward in the relationship.
#4. Take the first step: Last but not least, take the first step
and let your partner know. It may hurt and may even cause damage that can’t be undone, but they deserve to know the truth. Even if things don’t end the way you’d hoped, you will be doing yourself and your significant other a huge disservice by keeping secrets and living untruthfully.
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